Our friendship turned ugly [again] due to the same reason [again]. It may be a blessing that we are far apart from each other, or else I could not have imagined the consequences, a cat fight perhaps.
This dear friend of mine likes, loves to plunge into relationships which she is so totally obsessed with. She gets so desperate that she would do anything just to get a boyfriend. Seriously. Every possible alternative you can name it. Google search, hours of searching through Friendster, IRC and now, she's hooked up to forums [any online forum].
After a few chatting sessions with the potential partner, especially the sharing of same interests, Baaam! She's into this guy. David, Daniel, Kevin..I can't even remember the rest of them. Unfortunately, after 6 months or so, or give it one year the most, I'll receive a hoo-ha call from her which I am really tired of hearing all the heartbroken s*it and the sobbing which she complained her eyes got too swollen for contact lens.
I offered her advice [this time] and comforted her. Well, maybe I said a little too much this time, which I suggested diving into a relationship that fast isn't a brilliant idea and the suggestion of quiting her possesive habit towards her boyfriend really drove her up the wall this time.
I may have oversaid a little too this time by diagnosing her "illness" as Anuptophobia [fear of being single]. But my whole point here is, Go slow and steady. Isn't that important in establishing and maintaining a relationship? Ain't I right?
I swear I won't be the one saying sorry this time. Lets see who's the stubborn one.
Saturday, October 27, 2007
Love is Blind.
Posted by selinalxy at 10:54:00 PM
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